I just want to 'do something'

[MKR&*42]

*Sigh*

Lately I've just been really discontent with my life and just want to "do something" but I'm really not sure exactly what I mean by it. I just am really sick and tired of like sitting on my bed for so many hours in the day and not going out or anything, but when I go out I don't really know what to do... I only really hang with friends during college times (we'll prob meet up 2/3 times over summer) and I'm cool with it being only a couple of times, but I really wanna do something to like improve myself? Like how people say do 1 thing every day that scares you haha.

I enjoy typing and stuff (hence why all my depts on here are content based haha) and writing a bit irl and I'd love to kinda go out and get to know more people and stuff but I don't really like my personality and I don't have enough money to just go out and join clubs and stuff argh.

Idrk if you can gather what I'm saying but I'm fed up of wasting my life doing **** all really and idrk how to improve with no money/not such great personality.

[Chippiewill]

Get a Hobby

[wixard]

could you not make more of an effort with your friends? like ask them to do something?

or maybe get a job, i don't understand people who don't have a job and then complain about sitting around all day being bored!

[MKR&*42]

could you not make more of an effort with your friends? like ask them to do something?

or maybe get a job, i don't understand people who don't have a job and then complain about sitting around all day being bored!

I have been trying for a while haha, I'm going round town tomorrow and asking in-store/giving CVs etc. but I've applied online for months and months to find some kind of job because I know it would kill loads of time

[wixard]

I have been trying for a while haha, I'm going round town tomorrow and asking in-store/giving CVs etc. but I've applied online for months and months to find some kind of job because I know it would kill loads of time

yeah just keep trying and ask your parents to ask their friends if they know of anything, connections for part time jobs are vital these days!

anyway i know what you mean, when none of my friends are free and i've a day off i hate being stuck in the house, i'll usually walk my dog or go shopping or something. you could exercise or join a gym? i do yoga like 3 times a week and it'd take up about an hour and a half of my day and then i feel like i've actually done something that day and not feel so lazy

[-:Undertaker:-]

I am the same lately, especially being away from home. At least at home I have the garden to do and sometimes go for a walk to Liverpool town centre even on my own. Strange really, its a bit of a dilemma - mates here in university I love going out with at night, mates back home are always skint so we don't really go out .. but I love going for meals with some of them. Then on the other hand, back home I also have the garden to do.

So torn between two lovers is the theme.

[Shar]

firstly, don't tell yourself that you don't have a great personality. try and be confident, believe in yourself.
if you enjoy writing why not start a blog or something or try getting some experience from the local papers if you like.

[e5]

Best thing, and how I met all of my best friends was getting a hobby. mine was in sport, they're now my best friends and I do so much with them all... drinking, cinema etc. I guess you just need to find a group that you feel comfortable with and it will all fall into place

[buttons]

lol this is me all the goddamn time....

i would turn off my Internet, get up and dressed everyday which forces me to go outside and do something. i used to take walks in the morning (until my iPod broke ) which would always get me in the mood for going out and grabbing the world. so be ready everyday instead of sitting on the internet waiting for it to come to you.

do you have a local paper? people in my town complain about nothing to do but there are always activities going about. my church has suppers and activities during the summer (yknow just like mini sports days for families etc) which is always good. it's kinda hard to do these sorta stuff on your own like all my friends live out of town so im always alone and can only be with them if i go into town and i have no desire to hang out with anyone around here. id rather spend my time with older people. i would look for voluntary jobs if there aren't any jobs going about, i know my churches are always looking for volunteers and don't force you into anything you don't want.

also, take any opportunity. don't be like me weighing up the pros and cons and mulling it over for weeks on end. just look at the pros and go for it.

anyway this has inspired me to go out and do something yay. BUT I NEED TO REVISE.

[e5]

Blogs are an amazing way to meet new people! Girl in my school has gone massive with her blog and has met so many people through it!

firstly, don't tell yourself that you don't have a great personality. try and be confident, believe in yourself.
if you enjoy writing why not start a blog or something or try getting some experience from the local papers if you like.