Are people just a bit too harsh?

[Lanyon]

I'm starting to have the feeling that people like to attack other people's ideas and views on things. I am wondering if anyone else has had any experiences of posting on the forum and feeling attacked unneccessarily or have gotten caught in a situation where someone else just didn't understand your OP, misunderstood it and gave you harsh criticism. I haven't explored every topic on this forum or anything like that. I haven't been active on the forum consitantly over the years but from the few days of my return to Habbox.

Just as I was writing this I was thinking, oh crap, what if I've said something harsh or critical to someone else without even realising it? It's possible? There are time where I'm a little bit stressed, say something unncessarily rude, get a harsh comment back for it and a day later realising what kind of fool I was. :rolleyes: Not a good thing for your reputation on Habbox.

I would really like to hear about other user's experiences on HabboxForum, are people just misunderstanding each other or is it really just bloodshed abuse?

If you've accidentally said something mean, apologise and correct what you were saying into what you meant it to say or do whatever you need to do.

[iLogan]

there are 100% a group of trolls who target people on the forum which is a bit of a shame because people aren't allowed to be banned for expressing their opinions apparently, but fair enough if all the trolls were banned then a fair few active members would be gone which would not be good for the already dying forum

[ihatehash]

Yeah but I don't think that the issue is only on habboxforum. People grow an extra set of balls when they log onto the internet and if they are not your friend they tend to criticize even if they don't have reason too.
It's just how the internet works.

[FlyingJesus]

I think most people are fine as long as you don't post something that's completely stupid - obviously if you do then it's going to get ripped to shreds and maybe you can learn from that. There are a couple of people here who live to abuse others but it's not a widespread problem

[Ekelektra]

There are harsh people on the forum and sometimes they've put me off using the forum. Often I've written something but then backspaced it thinking 'oh some people won't like that nevermind won't post it' And they do make it less enjoyable.

But that's the internet there are always horrible people on it. Yeah I've been in other communities where there are less trolls and harsh opinions but I think on here the friend's I've made outweigh them.

[Kyle]

I've noticed it too. lots and lots of condescension from older members to newer members that dare to post or make threads that they think will create discussion. sadly not everyone sees their own views as things that thye can build on or help othres to build with and instead just post outright rude remarks. if you want to say something then just say it and back it up when it is countered. if you are wrong, admit it and move on.

[karter]

sorry if you felt personally attacked by my posts

[Rachel]

Just it seems these days you can't express your feelings or such without being criticised. It's sucks as I think anyone here is allowed to express their opinion , thoughts and feelings of things well as long as it is not rude. If someone says something rude to me I simply ignore them and by ignoring them makes them feel even worse and they will eventually stop...of course some trolls will stay trolls. Like I always say, " Trolls will be trolls forever".

[HE-Joshua]

Well there certainly some Know it all members on the forum - I'm awaiting the other bullies to view this thread.

Don't take it personally - I actually find it funny when someone takes the effort to try and put my ideas/comments down - I mean im certain they lost sleep over it sometimes.

[Nick]

I think most people are fine as long as you don't post something that's completely stupid - obviously if you do then it's going to get ripped to shreds and maybe you can learn from that. There are a couple of people here who live to abuse others but it's not a widespread problem

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