What counts the most? Looks or personality?

[myles]

LOOKS all the way
sorry but if you are ugly then u can piss off. i think people that say personality counts the most are liars! or obviously don't have any taste.

what do you all think?

[Empired]

Must be a mix of both

It always starts off being based on looks alone when you haven't even met and if they are fairly attractive then you're gonna go and talk to them. But then if you don't get along or have like NOTHING in common then that's not gonna work either.

[Chipmunks]

Would say looks but i'm ugly myself and no one would date me for looks so i'll go with personality lol

[buttons]

i would say personality cause ive fancied people who aren't good looking lol n if i go for a guy who i think is hot, most my friends won't think he's good looking cause we all have diff tastes, so if i did go for looks then it wouldn't necessarily be 'good' looking
(talkin bout when i was single ;ll )

[Kardan]

Personality

[FlyingJesus]

Money

[Futz]

I don't usually give girls who I don't find attractive a chance, by chance I mean like, I won't express emotions of romance or lust towards them. For example, if I meet a girl I don't find attractive I will start talking to them more confidently and revealing of my flaws, I think of them as more of a guy. I like meeting girls I don't find attractive because usually you'll both have a mutual friendship over time knowing you can use each other to meet people, wing each other and it's nice knowing people you see out that might not be part of your usual crowd

However, if I meet a girl I find attractive I'm a lot less confident, I try to show the best parts of me and I will express emotions of interest towards them and they can pick up on it. These are the girls I would be happy to call my girlfriend if they turn out to have a personality I can clash with.

but I think looks is a very relative word, girls I've found attractive and girls my friends have found attractive have been different in the past, it depends on the person so I don't think theres always a certain look, so if you feel ugly, you might be attractive to someone else.

But in my own opinion, I wont want to be in a relationship with someone I didn't find attractive but personality can make or break a girl, so I think it's a bit of both but ultimately I would say looks>personality because you could give a toad the best personality in the world but they would still be a toad

[Absently]

for me its personality, 'cus generally i do normally have rly awful taste anyways. so u can be extremely hideous and ill fancy you anyway cus you are a nice person.

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not u @pasta; tho dw u gorgeous

[MKR&*42]

Personality counts more, but looks do count partially. Actually what counts is somebody who can stand my personality rlly ;///

[Zelda]

i find looks have usually been most important for me, but person I fancy atm isn't really the best looking person in the world and I'm definitely more attracted to his personality for him (though he is still quite good looking)