Ways to get over someone...

[Glen Coco]

So in relation to a thread I did a while ago, it has come to my attention, after finding out about something else!!, that he is not good for me and our 'relationship' is going nowhere (the word relationship used because I don't know quite else how to name what we have, more like friends with benefits - but mainly me getting used).

I do not want to cut him out completely though, so please no "delete his number, facebook, twitter, ect." please.

[wixard]

should have listened to us!

the only way i can get over someone is by finding someone else to replace them, sadly
sorry i can't be of anymore help but this REALLY really works

[e5]

Honestly, from experience, time is the ultimate healer, I couldn't move on for toffee and always went back. Time goes by and you realise what you were letting yourself in for and it soon mends. Nothing else in my opinion helps anymore. Deleting numbers etc only makes you wonder what they're doing so you're always thinking about them, if you have the ability to check, you'll find yourself not doing so less and less if you be strong and stop seeing them and making contact.

I used to find random reasons to talk to my ex, but now realise I was wasting my time. I only learn this, again, as time went by.

[Sharon]

replacing them is the only thing that works for me, bad as it sounds if i didn't replace people within the first few days it would have just made me upset because i wouldn't of had any distractions n would have resorted to thinking bout them

[e5]

replacing them is the only thing that works for me, bad as it sounds if i didn't replace people within the first few days it would have just made me upset because i wouldn't of had any distractions n would have resorted to thinking bout them

It seems females best way if moving on is jumping into another lad haha :p

[sex]

if you keep talking to him youre not really going to get over him

when he sees you moving on hes probably going to cut contact and you will feel like an idiot for not doing it first

[Sharon]

It seems females best way if moving on is jumping into another lad haha :p

i don't really consider myself jumping!!! just speaking to someone new will make me feel better

[Futz]

give it time, it'll probably take you ages to get over him if you're not willing to stop talking to him

you'll probably find someone who meshes with you better eventually but if you keep holding onto what you have with this dude that keeps turning you out you probably wont

these threads are ******* ****
you aint willing to take any advice
it's like you just want the forum to know you're getting ******

[wixard]

give it time, it'll probably take you ages to get over him if you're not willing to stop talking to him

you'll probably find someone who meshes with you better eventually but if you keep holding onto what you have with this dude that keeps turning you out you probably wont

these threads are ******* ****
you aint willing to take any advice
it's like you just want the forum to know you're getting ******

did you get your period in the middle of typing this post

[Futz]

did you get your period in the middle of typing this post

yeah I started getting angry that I was legitimately replying to this post so I just pulled the plug and went with a contriversal ending

I like to keep it fresh for hxfers

what will Futz post next

fight me tara