Pregnant BEST Friend

[Glitzil]

Well the title pretty much says it all and i know many people may not be able to believe me and i didn't actually believe it myself until i was proven wrong today. She's my best friend and has been ever since we were 4 years old. Last year in December my friend started dating this really nice boy and i mean he is really nice to her. They have never split up or even had any arguements and then my friend told me that she was pregnant today. I was stunned and i didn't believe her until i was proven wrong. We've always sat and had long conversations about falling pregnant and things and what we would call our children and things like. She has always said i would never get rid of my child even if i had it at this is age. She says that i can definatly be a godmother which i am absoloutly over the moon with because i adore children. Her mum doesn't know and she says her mum would throw her out but i don't reckon any parent would. I was just wondering if anyone could really give me any information on how to comfort her but not get on her nerves at the same time. Feels better now i've got it off my chest and i'm still stunned.

[Luayminator]

I dont think many people would have gone through that to be able to offer you help.

[Squishybeamz]

Did your friend might not want you to post this since it seems personal?
In other words do you have permission from your friend to tell everyone on the forum shes pregnant?

[Owen]

how old is she?

[MsTanya]

Just tell her that youd always me there for her, when she need someone to talk to or is upset You catch my drift..

[Code]

Jesus, how old is she?!

Like 30?

-Will

[kaut]

She should tell her parents.. if they throw her out, ask your parents if she could stay with you. It's normal to be worried about these things... even older adults worry about it. But I'm guessing she's pretty young considering the average age on this forum. Just be there for her is all I can really say. My mom was pregnent with me when she was 17 and everything turned out okay although it took her a lot of work and she didn't get to go to college like she wanted til she was 35. Hopefully your friend's family will support her through this time.

[Stacey.]

Just say you'll be there for her, even if her parents are there for her or not. She needs all the help she can get.

[Seacat]

I would get her parents to help her as soon as possible. I'm guessing she's quite young, so although you may be an excellent friend, you and her wont be able to get through everything on your own..

I doubt her parents would kick her out :p Maybe that was just to scare her into not getting pregnant, she will probably find her parents are supportive. Her parents are going to find out sooner or later, so it may aswell be sooner, it is not only the babys health you have to watch out for but the girls too!

[ChloeDust]

Yeh what seacat said and basically just stick by her, and be supportive but she will have to tell her parents someday because if not the later she leaves it the worse it'll be.