k this boy srsly starting to annoy me

Socialise with him more just one to one,

it sounds like his clingy-ness is because he doesn't want to feel apart or distant from you especially after you rejected him which is what probably has occurred due to the awkward elements of it.

Your desperate need to get away from him only makes him feel more at a distant from you so he will cling on tighter. So by socialising with him one to one he will let off eventually

When I say socialise I don't mean wait for him to call you, I mean you need to arrange it with him yourself. Not just say yes to things when he asks. That way he will know that you two are still fairly close.

After a while socialise with a group of people and everything should return back to normal.

Tell him you felt he was trying tot reat you as if he was your bf or summin and he wouldn't give you any space? :S Well atleast you don't need to talk to him and it aint your fault so don't feel bad? :S

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Originally Posted by Soy

are you sexually attracted to him

he sounds possesive

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hell no, i don't think anyone could be attracted to him. he is obsessed with sex and has never even had a girlfriend?!

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Originally Posted by Jin

Socialise with him more just one to one,

it sounds like his clingy-ness is because he doesn't want to feel apart or distant from you especially after you rejected him which is what probably has occurred due to the awkward elements of it.

Your desperate need to get away from him only makes him feel more at a distant from you so he will cling on tighter. So by socialising with him one to one he will let off eventually

When I say socialise I don't mean wait for him to call you, I mean you need to arrange it with him yourself. Not just say yes to things when he asks. That way he will know that you two are still fairly close.

After a while socialise with a group of people and everything should return back to normal.

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i don't want it to be back to normal :P i want him out my life now because after we fell out he backstabbed me n i don't want to be friends with someone like that.

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Tell him you felt he was trying tot reat you as if he was your bf or summin and he wouldn't give you any space? :S Well atleast you don't need to talk to him and it aint your fault so don't feel bad? :S

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hm i don't feel bad anymore coz he text me some really stupid nasty things which i can handle and gave it back twice as bad so it's good now, at least i can say it to him face-to-face he'll just tell me to **** off n he'll walk away because he can only do it through text/msn/group of people, so i don't mind and i'm glad we're no longer friends.

Exactly, it kind of makes you the better person because if he clearly can't defend himself irl so does it on msn just cause he feels more safe, but if he has something to say to you he should do it to your face, has he seriously never had a gf?

tell him straight