stalker?

[Decode]

Tell him you dont like him, but be friends with him

[Ashley 12344]

*REMOVED*

I'm guessing your not very old, meaning this kid is even younger. You said he has 'problems', so you gotta except some form of abnormality.

You shouldn't even have to ask. In no way is he stalking you. He might have quite a strong 'crush' but thats about as far as it goes. You complain about him giving you an Easter egg, thats a gift fgs. If he was sat in the tree outside your bedroom window I'd understand your concern.

Edited by Thaddeus (Forum Moderator): Please don't be rude.

[BlueEyedSarah]

you dont understand, if i actually talked to him, he'd follow me about more and think i fancy him .....

Why do you keep running from him? That just makes you look silly in my opinion. I think you should just talk to him, tell him you hear roumers about him having a crush on you and you would just like to confirm if its true or not and let him know you do not want to get he's hopes up and you do not feel ready for a relationship right now with anyone. If he wants to be friends that should be fine - I see nothing wrong with that, but its up to you. You can choose your friends...

[Abbie.]

u really dont understand his problems though


gah nevermind none of you get it

thanks anyway.

[lewis-moody]

I understand,

your totally scared..
DNT BE

act normal around him,

I have a freinds whos like him

I laid it down

Sure he wasnt too happy but yeah

were best mates no and if i dont like what hes doing ill tell him

He stops

so yeah


But act casual

[Abbie.]

i do act casual

lol, infact when he followed me to my bus stop, i told him his hair was nice rofl

hes like 6'4, i think thats what makes me think hes even more scary lol

[Ashley 12344]

How old is he?
Just to give me a better idea of circumstances. A 17 year old like this is a lot worse than a 12 year old, which would be quite understandable.

[Abbie.]

15.. i think

[Mrs.Lampard]

I know how you feel.
There used to be this boy in my primary school and he used to follow me out the gates after school and because i used to live across the road from the school he would knock my letter box all the while. When we was in school he would follow me round and act all silly around me which he thought was cool. when we was sitting down in class he would try to sit next to me, in the end i had to make my mom go into the school to talk to the teachers about it, so they moved me to the other side of the classroom which didn't work. Secondary school comes, he ends up going to the same school as me '/ And in the same tutor, how great. Then he used to go round school telling everyone he liked me and then everyone would be like "aww" even though he gets bullied all the while he thinks hes cool and that people was laughing with him when they was laughing at him, he would run round doing dances. He used to grab my bag so i couldn't ignore him because i tried not to talk to him or he would just be even worse and follow me all the more. i just got really annoyed and like grrr with it all because it is really annoying. I started a paper round which was around his area, he used to wait in his doorway for hours on a thursday for me to come, then at school if i hadn't delivered he would be like how come you didn't come ? are you coming next week ?

Eventually he moved school to a special school, it all cleared up then, but i still have to see him on my paper round and he's STILL there waiting. But it's a whole lot easier because i dont have to put up with it all the while at school.

[Abbie.]

lol, its such an awkward situation to be in, isnt it?

i dread seeing him, i feel bad for the poor guy, but at the same time, he shoudnt be following me about