Is distance a problem?

[H]

as from stright realtionships that i have seen over the past few months, i havent seen a single one worked.


I dunno, would you make the effort?, if so, it would work.
if not then lol ^_^

My long distance relationship lasted 3 years. I think they're better, don't get sick of each other as much.

[Naythi.]

Sure they can work, you just have to have faith in each other, and trust because being that far apart you may get bored etc.
Im sure your'l be fine though babe

[no waiii]

we don't live that far away
not really if you stay in contact regular, but if you start to lose contact then i see it slipping away

[Mitch4?]

We'll we've met a few more times now, and i really do like this guy.
It's like 1 hour 30 on train, it's like 40-45 minutes each to meet up in a middle distance.

But it's working so far, and we've already got a few short breaks to places like blackpool sorted out
It's real good, i love it, =]
I met his auntie already aww (he don't live with his parents, they disaprove of his sexuality).

[Susie Dent]

I suppose in some aspects it can be better as you aren't together all the time and get bored of each other, but you've got to put in the commitment and if you don't meet regularly then there's no point really, plus some people are naturally suspicious etc and the distance may become too much to handle

[Leetzgirl]

My long distance relationship lasted 3 years. I think they're better, don't get sick of each other as much.

Fair enough

[AMERlCA...]

We'll we've met a few more times now, and i really do like this guy.
It's like 1 hour 30 on train, it's like 40-45 minutes each to meet up in a middle distance.

But it's working so far, and we've already got a few short breaks to places like blackpool sorted out
It's real good, i love it, =]
I met his auntie already aww (he don't live with his parents, they disaprove of his sexuality).

good on you

[RedStratocas]

depends on what type of person you are. me and my girlfriend are going to have a long distance relationship in the fall (im going to college in new york and will see her every few weeks) and i think it'll work. even at the moment, we only see eachother for about an hour at school during the weekdays and we hang out once a week, twice on a good week. despite the fact she doesnt have a job and lives 7 minutes from me and i have a car, we don't see each other much. so sometimes, even the distance can help. you dont get bored of each other as people said. there is such thing as being with each other too much.

which is where the other side comes in. i have a friend who spends every minute possible with girlfriend, which adds up to a few dozen hours a week. he'll have trouble when they go to different colleges i think.

[<3]

Distance can be a problem if unrealistic (one of my mum's friend is gay and is dating a pilot from New Jersey and it works because he's over here regularly with his job) but if you're only a teenager and can't afford train/bus/plane journeys then it won't work. If you can afford to make the journey however often you agree to meet then it should be great. By not seeing each other every day you won't get bored of seeing him. Waiting is good for the heart

[Independent]

My girlfriend lives 5 hours away (Train journey) I live in hastings, and she lives in newcastle, distance is defo' a problem.