First Date

[Jessicrawrr]

sounds soo cute ;D
just be yourself, compliment her, just have a really good time with her.
I wouldn't actually know what the arkwardness of a date is, I've like never been on one.
Good luck ;D

[Arron]

i dont know if i have that personality to say "you look b-e-a-utiful" in person. especially on the first date :L
im 17. some people would laugh at me having my first date now, but to be honest, i've not been to fussed about relationships until now, all my mates have a girlfriend so i kinda feel left out?

im not doing this just for my mates sake, this girl is living life hard atm. Her mum wouldn't sign her EMA papers for college because she lives with her dad instead of her. She works but only a few hours a week, so i just wanna be there for her in the future helping her out and stuff

[cocaine]

took you 2 months!? damn haa. erm just be yourself i cant really say much more.. just make sure you're talkative, ask her lots of questions cause it'll make her feel included as opposed to you just talking at her. make sure you make her feel comfortable around you, if you're edgy or show you're nervous she won't be able to relax. if it helps take a shot of something alcoholic beforehand.. are you familiar with the term dutch courage? just don't get wasted.

oh.. and on a side note.

[Nicola]

i dont know if i have that personality to say "you look b-e-a-utiful" in person. especially on the first date :L
im 17. some people would laugh at me having my first date now, but to be honest, i've not been to fussed about relationships until now, all my mates have a girlfriend so i kinda feel left out?

im not doing this just for my mates sake, this girl is living life hard atm. Her mum wouldn't sign her EMA papers for college because she lives with her dad instead of her. She works but only a few hours a week, so i just wanna be there for her in the future helping her out and stuff

Ok so maybe don't say "you look beautiful" I think "You look really nice" is fine for a first date tbh

When you actually go just try not to think about how awkward it could be. The cinema part will be ok as you don't really have to talk, but if you go to pizza hut after the cinema then you can actually talk about the film. No doubt that will then lead onto another conversation and eventually you should just find yourself forgetting about how nervous you are because you'll be deep into conversation.

I wouldn't worry too much because she's probably just as nervous as you are.

[Conservative,]

Well...take her to see a slightly scary movie, then you can hug her when she's scared ;]. No but seriously just act yourself, and comfort her if she wants/needs it in the movie. And you could do that really cheesy but effective *yawn* *arm around back*. Trust me, they don't notice for a while, then when they do they like it ;]

And go to pizza after, because then as others have said, you can talk about the film

[Jordy]

Talk about yourself if you get stuck with things to talk about, you should never be at a loss when it comes to things to say about yourself. Probably worth paying for her too, girls like that and especially if she's having money issues. Try to be intimiate also, hold her hand and things, I remember on my very first date we didn't really touch other than hugging, we both said afterwards how that sort of ruined it.

[immense]

my first date with my most recent partner we went to a park, went back to mine, watched 6 hours of tv and got wasted on cheap vodka. i don't recommend that. just play it cool. i know you're a good looking guy cuz i have you on fb from habbo days and just play things cool and you'll be fine. just be confident and remember she wouldn't have said yes if she didn't want to be with you. i think that helps if you remember that. she has accepted because she wants to be with you. now take it by the horns and offer simple gestures "hiya, howa you did you get here ok?" then she'll reply "nice, so the bus wasn't late and there weren't any weirdos talking to you haha you got lucky" it's so easy to get convo rolling and when it's rolling it's all fab

[Arron]

took you 2 months!? damn haa. erm just be yourself i cant really say much more.. just make sure you're talkative, ask her lots of questions cause it'll make her feel included as opposed to you just talking at her. make sure you make her feel comfortable around you, if you're edgy or show you're nervous she won't be able to relax. if it helps take a shot of something alcoholic beforehand.. are you familiar with the term dutch courage? just don't get wasted.

yeah i could do that. i just gotta be careful i don't host a quiz show to her :|

Ok so maybe don't say "you look beautiful" I think "You look really nice" is fine for a first date tbh

When you actually go just try not to think about how awkward it could be. The cinema part will be ok as you don't really have to talk, but if you go to pizza hut after the cinema then you can actually talk about the film. No doubt that will then lead onto another conversation and eventually you should just find yourself forgetting about how nervous you are because you'll be deep into conversation.

I wouldn't worry too much because she's probably just as nervous as you are.

yeah i like the sound of that, thanks

Well...take her to see a slightly scary movie, then you can hug her when she's scared ;]. No but seriously just act yourself, and comfort her if she wants/needs it in the movie. And you could do that really cheesy but effective *yawn* *arm around back*. Trust me, they don't notice for a while, then when they do they like it ;]

And go to pizza after, because then as others have said, you can talk about the film

well my mate said take her to see a scary film, but if anything ill be hugging her cos i hate scary films! are there any scary films out now other than Paranormal Activity? I know Saw is 18 and no I will NEVER *yawn* *arm goes round her*. i think it's mightily cheesy sorry ;P

Talk about yourself if you get stuck with things to talk about, you should never be at a loss when it comes to things to say about yourself. Probably worth paying for her too, girls like that and especially if she's having money issues. Try to be intimiate also, hold her hand and things, I remember on my very first date we didn't really touch other than hugging, we both said afterwards how that sort of ruined it.

i was planning on letting her pay, but yeah that sounds like a good enough reason for me to pay
^ Joke haha yeah ofc i'll pay.

I dont know? is holding hands (or *HH* if i was Chandler) a bit to soon, taking into account that i hardly know her in person?

[Nicola]

Hmm I wouldn't suggest holding hands, I agree that it's a bit too soon. Also maybe go and see a comedy? That's probably your best bet for a good film on a first date and it'll keep you both in a good mood too.

[Arron]

Due Date? Alan from the Hangover is in it and we both love him.

Do i pull off any "moves" in the cinemas? haha