My Stepdad Rubbing me the Wrong Way

[DPS]

Want my honest advice? show your step dad whos boss, knock the crap out of him... im being srs btw. show him he cant treat you like ****. If he then hits you pow go to the police, no matter the age he shouldnt be hitting teens goodgame step dad.

[Arron]

If I was you I'd speak to you're mum and tell her that you think you're step-dad needs to back off a little because it does seem clear that you don't have a good relationship with eachother. I'd also tell her that you get bullied if you haven't already. If you're mum is taking no action then speak to a teacher/headteacher and see if they can put you in a different form for the beginning of the new School year.

Are you close with your Dad? If so why not spend a week with him before you go back to School? It will enable you to clear your mind and possibly talk to him about things, although depending on the relatioship between you're Dad and Stepdad, it might not go down too well.

If you ever need a 1 to 1 talk just send me a private message.

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to all other users who misinterpret the title, please don't comment about it.

Just read that you're from Senegal, so I don't know if you currently live there or not, but only travel the Scotland to see your Dad if you desperately need him.

[beth]

i can't believe people think the step-dad needs any kind of talking to. he's completely right in his actions.

[FlyingJesus]

The sheet on my bed is usually completely off by 4-5pm and each evening I ask my mother to put it back on, as I have not contributed towards the mess and I dont feel I should clear it up. My stepdad SNAPPED back with "Well when you leave crumbs in the kitchen when you make a sandwich, should I just leave it?"
Is he just being childish and saying this to spite me?

Wow are you kidding? You ask your mum to sort out mess with the excuse that it's not your mess, yet it's clearly not hers either. Take some responsibility for your stuff, it's not her problem and you sound ridiculously rude and ungrateful. Especially if you're leaving messes in the kitchen and not clearing up like that

And his daughter is my age, yet his son is only 11. He tries to get me and his daughter to involve to son in what we do, as if we're all the same age. Yet today, when he was sick in the toilet, my stepdad was treating him like a child, offering him drinks and toast. This is completely unfair, and I'm close to barring them from my room and getting a lock to give myself a weekend without them.

How dare you look after his child?! No really what are you on about. Of course he doesn't want his son to be left out of things and of course he'll tend to him when he's ill. You come across as extremely selfish here


Genuinely shocked at how some people are telling him to "fight back" when there's no fight to begin with, especially those of you who are suggesting physical violence.

[AgnesIO]

Want my honest advice? show your step dad whos boss, knock the crap out of him... im being srs btw. show him he cant treat you like ****. If he then hits you pow go to the police, no matter the age he shouldnt be hitting teens goodgame step dad.

Could the quoted post quite possibly be the most ridiculous post ever to be published on HabboxForum?

[beth]

Could the quoted post quite possibly be the most ridiculous post ever to be published on HabboxForum?

i'd go with yes. brb smacking my dad.

[CrazyLemurs]

If I was you I'd speak to you're mum and tell her that you think you're step-dad needs to back off a little because it does seem clear that you don't have a good relationship with eachother. I'd also tell her that you get bullied if you haven't already. If you're mum is taking no action then speak to a teacher/headteacher and see if they can put you in a different form for the beginning of the new School year.

Are you close with your Dad? If so why not spend a week with him before you go back to School? It will enable you to clear your mind and possibly talk to him about things, although depending on the relatioship between you're Dad and Stepdad, it might not go down too well.

If you ever need a 1 to 1 talk just send me a private message.

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to all other users who misinterpret the title, please don't comment about it.

Just read that you're from Senegal, so I don't know if you currently live there or not, but only travel the Scotland to see your Dad if you desperately need him.

Lol I'm not Senegalese, I just say Senegal to confuse you, seems to have worked Great advice, but the bullying I get isn't from my form. They're comparably nice, it's just others who I share classes with... And my Dad isn't worth talking to, he's **** at parenting really. +rep, sorry it's only like 1-2.

@Becca, I've spoken about that with my mum anyways. And when I move tomorrow, my stepbrother (the annoying one) is sharing my room. Which is a completely different matter.

@Those mentioning the bed, it's not I cant do my bed, I can and do sometimes. It's the fact that it's got nothing to do with me.

@Whoever said my room is my mess, that's not fair, because they made the mess. If I went in to their room and messed it up, then I'd still be clearing it up.

@FlyingJesus, go home please. I want advice and suggestions, not someone to argue with. Plus I dont make a mess in the kitchen, he just thinks I do. I spend so little time out of my room I dont have the chance to make other mess.

And am update, I sent the original post to my mum in a text, and she really hates that I feel like that. She may talk to him about it, not sure if she has/ will do.
Stop being dirty with the thread name, you sickos!!!

[beth]

i cannot even fathom why you think flyingjesus isn't right. it's probably because yr a teenager and you think the whole world owes you something. lemme give you a little hint, if yr mom not putting yr sheet on yr bed is the biggest annoyance you have in yr life, you have a fantastic life.
you sound so spoilt it's unreal.

[CrazyLemurs]

i cannot even fathom why you think flyingjesus isn't right. it's probably because yr a teenager and you think the whole world owes you something. lemme give you a little hint, if yr mom not putting yr sheet on yr bed is the biggest annoyance you have in yr life, you have a fantastic life.
you sound so spoilt it's unreal.

Oh are you in my head? I didn't think so... The world doesn't owe me anything. It's prolly the other way round but... It's not the largest annoyance in my life either. I'm not spoilt as we, so please learn about the person you're talking to first Bethie. I'm not a normal ******* teenager, believe me. I dont follow the same pattern...

[FlyingJesus]

Go home? Are you kidding me? You say you want advice, my advice is to stop being an ungrateful little kid who actively looks for things to complain about. Your stepdad is being 100% reasonable in every situation that you've written about, and if you don't like being told anything other than "YEAH HE'S IN THE WRONG THAT'S SOOOOOOO UNFAIR!!!" then don't ask for genuine advice, just talk to the mirror. I'm not trying to make an argument I'm trying to show you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with anything that you've said has happened and that you're the one who needs to change, not your stepdad.