How do I ask them?

[Rauhl]

just sing youre beutiful by james blunt ^^ shell get the idea

[liquid]

I was away on a camping holiday with the church over the weekend, which we both go to, and loads of her friends came up to me and said that they could tell I fancied her, but I just denied it. If they can tell I fancy her, she can probably tell too. When I think back to it, I was consciously and sub-consciously flirting with her.

What should I do? I just can't work it out.

as far as i know, most girls that age would talk to each other about boys they like. so ask her friends? although if they told you they could tell, if she did like you they'd probably have told you then. -shrug-

[lAdmire]

i think you should just talk to her & be like, i like you but i don't want to ruin our friendship.
just get to know her, ask her out & stuff.

[M6mmikaru]

i think you should just talk to her & be like, i like you but i don't want to ruin our friendship.

just get to know her, ask her out & stuff.

Yhh. That's a nice one

[Muppet]

Just grit your teeth and ask her, have confidence! Tell her its okay if she says no, and that you understand if she does. If she says yes its a bonus!

[Tristan]

Hey,

I'm an early teenager but I've never felt confident enough to ask someone out. I'm confident in just about every other way, I just can't bring myself to do it.

There's a girl I know well in the year below me, and I just don't know what to do. I think about her so much, and it sends shivers down my spine. I've fancied lots of other girls in the past, but this is different in my mind. The problem really is that I don't want to ruin my friendship with her, aside from the fact that I'm not confident enough to ask her.

I was away on a camping holiday with the church over the weekend, which we both go to, and loads of her friends came up to me and said that they could tell I fancied her, but I just denied it. If they can tell I fancy her, she can probably tell too. When I think back to it, I was consciously and sub-consciously flirting with her.

What should I do? I just can't work it out.

Mega cheesy, sorry.

Just say to her something like i really enjoy hanging around with you and i love out friendship. Then continue to say maybe we could go out but i dont want to ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out

Good luck

Mega cheesy.

No no no, that will never work. Been down that road. Anyway I can only give advice on how to stop failing a relationship, cos im useless...
Dont be me. Dont hide it from her until it is too late. Just pull the courage and make sure no jerks ruin it. Being Asked by mates = Embarrasing. Dont deny it, dont try and get rid of it. Go with the flow. Just try and pull up the courage. I asked a girl out, no suprise but when she said 'No' we still stayed freinds. There is nothing to be nervous, but I know how you may feel. It wont ruin your life.
But If you are not ready yet, give it a while. Talk a lot. Be kind and generous to her, try flirting. Perhaps she may come once to ask YOU out.

Sorry for yourself much?! LOL.

i think you should just talk to her & be like, i like you but i don't want to ruin our friendship.
just get to know her, ask her out & stuff.

Mega cheesy.

Yhh. That's a nice one

... lol.


er kk dnt mention ur friendship cause dat's jst stupid.
Well don't say the exact word "friendship" because that just sounds like you're trying to be mega mature and act as if this was the love of your life which it isn't... Your age speaks buckets to prove that.
Word it somehow else if you're going to talk to her about it don't say "I love you" or "I really care about you" or "I have feelings for you". "I like you"/"I really like you" is the right way to go. Cause the previous ones just sound stupid, lol.
Then u reassure her by saying "but if u don't like me in the same way really, don't let it affect us as friends...". No mention of friendship kk. Sounds too stupid.

kk dun.

Best option would be to ask her friends though, preferably the nicer ones if she's got some proper munters as friends. Then if she dnt lyk u in dat way den she wnt b put off of u because of u fancyin her init. As she most likely wud be if u went out straight to her.
Then if they dno if she likes u or not, they'd ask her.

kk. repz plz.
lolllllll.